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Perhaps the single most destructive element in intimate relating is the buildup, over time, of unresolved hurts, resentments and fears. These withheld communications eventually form a wall between partners and “fix” our loved ones into a certain position in our minds. We then begin to relate through these filters as if they were reality. The result is we and our partners feel unheard and unseen, and distance and bitterness replace intimacy and sweetness. The full expression and hearing of what has been withheld allows a space to be cleared for us to recapture the connection and free our partners, and ourselves, from the imprisonment of these illusions. This enables us to effectively deal with differences that arise before they turn into problems. Withheld communication creates stagnation and energetic drain in relationship. The symptoms of this may include:
As withheld communication is expressed, there is an energetic opening in the relationship. As the partners experience being heard and received, defensive positions relax. When everything is out in the open, we see more clearly what the real issues are, and what will be required from each partner to take the relationship to the next level. The process begins with a brief individual interview with each participant. This usually lasts 15-30 minutes and can be done in person or by telephone. Next, each participant is given a written assignment to complete. Then we meet together for an intensive session - 3 hours is average. Often a one-hour follow up session is recommended two weeks later. FEES: $100 per hour, including interview time. JASON BRODY holds a Master’s Degree in Psychology and has 35 years experience in taking individuals and couples deeper into who they truly are. He facilitates the AWAKENING INTENSIVE in San Diego and internationally. He can be contacted at 760-489-8087 or you can . If you and your partner are stuck, or wanting to break cleanly, or good and want to get better, this work can be a powerful aid.  Want a sane voice to help guide you through difficult waters? We work with connecting you with the resources that are already available within you to handle life’s challenges. As you find the courage to act from the truth of who you are, fear and deficiency lose their grip. We identify the nature of what is holding you back and work toward dissoving its grip on you, then empower the resources that already exist but are obscured from view. This work can be done in person or by telephone. Sessions are half an hour and cost $50, one hour session $100. Call 760-489-8087 to set up an appointment with Jason Brody. |
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